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The True Cost of Internet Shopping

I’m always pretty pleased to stumble across an overseas parcel waiting for me on the doorstep when I arrive home from work. It generally means that my latest delivery has arrived from ASOS or Topman, or one of the other online retailers who make it so easy for me to fritter away my hard-earned salary [...]

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I am a Liar

Ben Rawley 15 March 2012

Pinocchio

I lie. I don’t like it but I do. Frequently. I pretty much think of all lies as wrong. I try and be honest in all that I do, answer questions honestly when asked directly (or just say, “I’m not going to answer that”). I consider myself to be a man of integrity, a trustworthy [...]

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I Wouldn’t do That

Bankers’ bonuses… Aren’t they shocking? The economy is in a mess… Unemployment is at 8.4%, 2.67 million – the highest in 16 years. Yet bankers are still getting bonuses. But if you’re honest, if you were a banker, being offered a bonus, wouldn’t you want it? And therein lies the issue – not bankers’ bonuses [...]

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The Housemate Conundrum

Many of you will have read my recent article about me laying my hat wherever I live, and making a house a home. But much to my dismay I recently found myself back in the familiar territory of having to find a new place to live. Even more worryingly, as I’m not looking to live [...]

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Sitting on the Offence

Recently, I’ve been thinking about offence a lot. What does it mean when something is offensive? Should we avoid offending people? Does it matter if someone is offended? It seems that this topic comes up quite a bit these days, perhaps because the Internet makes it so easy to express outrage. Simmering about an offhand [...]

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40 Days of Lent

Jen 21 February 2012

40 Days of Lent

Lent. A four-letter word that conjures up the image of candles in dark hallways with monks chanting and the overwhelming sense of abstinence. I often hear of people giving up things for Lent; at school I remember friends giving up tea or coffee and all throughout her life my Granny has given up chocolate – although [...]

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Where do I put my weight?

I spent Saturday at a volunteer training day for an NGO concerned with the issue of justice. They are an international organisation working in collaboration with local judicial systems to investigate and prosecute crime and then provide aftercare for the victims of these crimes. Among the injustices that were cited were sex trafficking, bonded labour [...]

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Working From Rest

A few weeks ago I spent the weekend away being lectured on having more time off. There was a lot more to the weekend than that, but that’s the main thing I remember. It seemed ironic: to spend the weekend in a classroom being told I should have more time off. The main thrust of [...]

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Wherever I Lay My Hat

I find that I sometimes lose large portions of my day, staring longingly into the huge world map that we have on the wall at home. I like to look at all of the places that I’ve been lucky enough to visit on my travels; picking out the names of the memorable cities and landmarks, [...]

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Stone Age Economics

“What do you want to do when you are older?” A few years back when I was an undergraduate student, I would answer this question by joking that I wished to save the world from war and poverty by the time I reached the age of 28, so that I could settle down and have [...]

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Dating Online

Susannah Clark 16 January 2012

internet-dating

Since the start of the new year I’ve encountered a lot of chat about the phenomenon that’s growing all the time: online dating. Maybe at this time of the year people are ready for a fresh start, eager to meet new people, a ‘might as well give it a go’ attitude. Or perhaps it’s a [...]

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Best of 2011

Sitting around this Christmas and wanting to know Time’s Person of the Year, which photos captured 2011, and whether Facebook’s Mark Zuckerberg is now the richest billionaire? Helpfully saving you time trawling the internet, below is our selection of the “Best of the Best 2011″. Comment away dear friends, and let us know if you [...]

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Speed Camera

Yesterday I drove to my sisters and part of the journey is on a little wiggly road with variable speed limits along its length. It’s a stretch of road where people often drive quickly, linking small villages with the motorway. As I was winding my way in a world of my own I noticed all [...]

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Charity Mugger

At this time of year the high streets and shopping malls of the world become painfully overcrowded with crazed shoppers attempting to complete their Christmas shopping – panic buying as if Hurricane Hugo were on it’s way, rather than a one day religious festival. Unfortunately with this sudden influx of cashed-up consumers comes a huge [...]

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Mid Life Crisis

Andrew Cummings 20 December 2011

Mid Life Crisis (Wilson Munday)

  I recently turned 30 and my brother-in-law bought me an Xbox 360.I was excited – as lets face it an Xbox is a pretty awesome present for any man, regardless of age. I am also a big technophile. I have a top of the range TV,an inappropriately expensive sound system,I stream my downloads directly [...]

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Cambridge

This week saw the commencement of the 2012 Oxbridge candidate interviews and for the second time this year I am glad I am not a prospective student. The Oxbridge interview is shroud in mystery, some revere it, others fear it, there are even those who fear it so much that it puts them off applying [...]

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What is this cake craze?

Jennie 15 December 2011

What is this cake craze?

  I have been a keen baker since forever. My mum is a chef and I love looking at the childhood photos of us cooking together, wooden spoon in hand, chocolate buttercream spread across face. This ‘hobby’ developed through my teens where I would bake when I was ill, feeling restless or sad as a [...]

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Ali and Friends

‘Um… without meaning to alarm anyone, I thought you should know that there’s an insane old man wandering around the cafe, randomly moving chairs.‘ ‘What? Oh no, that’s Ali; the MD’s father.’ ‘Oh right. Er, sorry.’ So began my first day of waitressing. Luckily that comment amused my manager more than anything else, and I [...]

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In The Navy

The Editor 7 December 2011

Royal Navy vs Mariah Carey

Saw this and thought of you all. So many unfinished thoughts…  

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food

I love food. Red meat, cakes, potatoes, chocolate, cheese, Palma ham are all in my Top Ten. I find myself getting itchy when I eat the last mouthful of my main course, and wonder what might be on the dessert menu. What’s next?! What else can my taste buds enjoy! I am fortunate that my [...]

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Something of Value

Anonymous 17 November 2011

Make-Money11

I find myself working long hours and striving to increase my wage in ways I never thought I would. But I don’t long to be rich. If at all I’d like to have money to allow me to give lots away (and support Lost Boys, for example). But maybe my child self wouldn’t recognise me [...]

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Sunrise over the Lake District

We’ve all been there. The dark moment when our confidence is in tatters and our grand vision is no longer as exciting as it once was. This happened to me again last month. I’d been sweating for 4-6 weeks trying to get a number of ideas off the ground. I could smell success. I knew that they [...]

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